Bachelor party is a party celebrated by the groom-to-be with his buddies and friends to bid an adieu to his bachelorhood days. Bachelor parties are also called as the bulls parties and bucks parties/nights. They are also regarded as the stag night or the stag party. This is basically to celebrate and invite a new page into a man's book called marriage hood. The groom-to-be quits his bachelorhood in a way that his bride-to-be may not appreciate it most of the times.
A stag party includes but not limited to fun and frolic activities involving alcohol, dance, gamble games, and goes even to the extent of importing female strippers and escorts.
Groom's friends and buddies in fact arrange stag party. They strictly maintain the suspense about the kind of party they have planned for the groom-to-be and this is even more fun.
The Best Man who is groom-to-be brother mostly takes an upper hand in organizing the stag party. In any case the stag party ideas will be planned such a way that the groom-to-be will have an unforgettable experience. A commonest idea for a stag party is arrange it in stripper's clubs and then invite superstar escorts and strippers of the place. There are some grand parties where the strippers are imported from out of the country such as Mexico and Brazil. No wonder it can be great fun for the groom-to-be to enjoy in the company of strippers, but many a times the grooms to be become irresistible and end up in having sex with one or many of the escorts or strippers and it will jeopardize his image very badly. Also, the groom-to-be might start feeling guilty of breaking the trust of his bride-to-be for him before the marriage itself.
The stag party motive should be to enable the bachelor to have a night of orgies but within some predefined borders. So a better idea can be to go to a strippers' club rather than bringing strippers. In a confined place the chances to end in sexual indulgence will be less. So, even the groom-to-be can remain his natural self after the stag night.
Another very popular stag night idea is to enjoy a game of baseball, rugby, golf, basketball, or other games where everyone will be involved. To materialize this, a suitable venue or court is booked. To make it more eventful can get all the jerseys printed with some great quotes on love and sex. Needless to say that it will engage all including the groom-to-be and this exhaustive activity is followed with some great food and flow of drinks and champagne.
Another hit idea is to go for drag races. Groom-to-be with his other bachelor friends get into their cars and race as fast as they can along the speedways. Alternatively, they can try with bicycle racing along woods or lakesides or even race along the dirty roads. In any case fun to flow by having a drink or two stopping at pubs.
There can be some outdoor activities including fishing, SCUBA diving, and kayaking, sailing, rafting, trekking, skydiving, bungee jumping, parasailing, skiing and snowboarding. There can even be co-ed activities wherein the bride-to-be with her friends is welcomed to the stag party and the party will start with dancing and end in dining.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Saturday, July 18, 2009
How to change your mindset and improve your sexual stamina
One of the main reasons men suffer from premature ejaculation—which simply means reaching orgasm before they ideally want to when they have sex—is because they have a negative mindset. And it’s not surprising when you think about it. Our minds rule our bodies. If we are sad, we cry. If we are happy, we smile and walk confidently. And, yes, if we have the wrong mindset, we guys can climax too early during sex. Here’s how it works.
Let’s take an imaginary guy called James, who reaches orgasm too soon. He knows this and is very, very conscious of the fact that he wishes he could last longer and satisfy himself and his partners more. He’s been sexually active for a few years, it doesn’t really matter how long – the point is, he’s not happy with his performance. Fast forward to a sexual encounter. Even before foreplay has begun – as soon as the opportunity or chance to have sex has arisen – in the back of his mind is the nagging thought, “This time I’d like to last longer than I have in the past, but will I ejaculate too soon?”. Already, either consciously or subconsciously, his performance is tainted with negative emotion. It’s providing extra pressure he really doesn’t need. Before sex he was thinking about foreplay, during foreplay he’s thinking about how he’s going to satisfy the female, and all the while at the back of his mind overshadowing his thoughts is that question, “Am I going to ejaculate too soon?”. This technique focuses on bringing you into the present and avoiding the negative emotion that’s brought on by thinking about what has happened in the past, or what might happen the next time you have sex.
Totally aside from sex, you can witness how we operate on auto-pilot. Everyday, we’re taking ourselves out of the present and into the future when we really don’t need to. Walking down the street you’re thinking of work, at work you’re thinking about sex, during sex...well, we know what you’re thinking about during sex. The point is, to fully relax and focus and enjoy sex for long periods, you need to be in the present. Inadvertently thinking about what might happen – ejaculating too soon – takes your focus off what is actually happening: you’re moving up the stimulation scale. This in turn hampers your ability to identify how close you are to an orgasm, making its prevention impossible.
This technique has one simple goal: to increase your self-awareness and bring you back into the present during sex. It’s used during the plateau stage of sex, the hard part, where keeping control of yourself is the most important and difficult. What you need to do is, every now and then, ask yourself a couple of simple questions in your head. “Do I feel tense or relaxed?” and “How close am I to reaching orgasm?”. It’s really important you say the questions in your head and not just “think” them. Actually say each word. The first question uses a simple psychological principle to relax you and bring you into the situation at hand. If, after asking yourself if you feel tense, you notice your shoulders are tight, or that you’re tensing your stomach when it’s not necessary, you don’t need to think of what to do next. Your shoulders automatically drop and your tense mid-section relaxes. Asking yourself the second question, “How close am I to reaching orgasm?” is something you should be doing throughout sex – identifying where you are on the stimulation scale. This brings you into the present and focuses you, but actually saying the question in your head once in a while is doubly effective!
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Let’s take an imaginary guy called James, who reaches orgasm too soon. He knows this and is very, very conscious of the fact that he wishes he could last longer and satisfy himself and his partners more. He’s been sexually active for a few years, it doesn’t really matter how long – the point is, he’s not happy with his performance. Fast forward to a sexual encounter. Even before foreplay has begun – as soon as the opportunity or chance to have sex has arisen – in the back of his mind is the nagging thought, “This time I’d like to last longer than I have in the past, but will I ejaculate too soon?”. Already, either consciously or subconsciously, his performance is tainted with negative emotion. It’s providing extra pressure he really doesn’t need. Before sex he was thinking about foreplay, during foreplay he’s thinking about how he’s going to satisfy the female, and all the while at the back of his mind overshadowing his thoughts is that question, “Am I going to ejaculate too soon?”. This technique focuses on bringing you into the present and avoiding the negative emotion that’s brought on by thinking about what has happened in the past, or what might happen the next time you have sex.
Totally aside from sex, you can witness how we operate on auto-pilot. Everyday, we’re taking ourselves out of the present and into the future when we really don’t need to. Walking down the street you’re thinking of work, at work you’re thinking about sex, during sex...well, we know what you’re thinking about during sex. The point is, to fully relax and focus and enjoy sex for long periods, you need to be in the present. Inadvertently thinking about what might happen – ejaculating too soon – takes your focus off what is actually happening: you’re moving up the stimulation scale. This in turn hampers your ability to identify how close you are to an orgasm, making its prevention impossible.
This technique has one simple goal: to increase your self-awareness and bring you back into the present during sex. It’s used during the plateau stage of sex, the hard part, where keeping control of yourself is the most important and difficult. What you need to do is, every now and then, ask yourself a couple of simple questions in your head. “Do I feel tense or relaxed?” and “How close am I to reaching orgasm?”. It’s really important you say the questions in your head and not just “think” them. Actually say each word. The first question uses a simple psychological principle to relax you and bring you into the situation at hand. If, after asking yourself if you feel tense, you notice your shoulders are tight, or that you’re tensing your stomach when it’s not necessary, you don’t need to think of what to do next. Your shoulders automatically drop and your tense mid-section relaxes. Asking yourself the second question, “How close am I to reaching orgasm?” is something you should be doing throughout sex – identifying where you are on the stimulation scale. This brings you into the present and focuses you, but actually saying the question in your head once in a while is doubly effective!
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Why can’t you last long enough in bed?
If you can’t last as long during sex as you’d like, then you aren’t alone. As much as 75% of the male population has trouble with premature ejaculation—so it’s by no means rare. What is rare, however, is seeing a guy solve his problem with rapid ejaculation using the right techniques and tactics. Perhaps this is because most men don’t know exactly what it takes to reverse their run of bad bedroom luck and turn their sex life around by increasing their sexual stamina.
The best place to start when solving your own case of ‘coming too quickly’ is identifying the real reasons you struggle to last long enough during sex. Read the following options.
1. You have a hard time controlling when you climax when you’re masturbating and when you have sex with your partner.
2. You only struggle to control when you ejaculate when you have sex. You have no problem doing it when you masturbate. When you have sex, you can’t last more than about 2 minutes before coming.
3. You have no problem with premature ejaculation when you masturbate, only when you have sex. When you have sex, you can usually last longer than 2 minutes, but less than 8 minutes.
If option one sounds the closest to your situation, then your premature ejaculation is probably being caused by an underlying case of hypersensitivity and sensational unawareness. This means that your penis is extremely prone to become over-stimulated as soon as sex begins and that you have a hard time really noticing when you’re close to and about to pass the ‘point of no return’, which—once passed—means that you’re going to climax no matter what you do. If you chose option two, then you probably have less hypersensitivity and more sensation unawareness.
This means that your penis does become very stimulated when you have sex—which can make it hard to refrain from coming early—but that your main problem is that you aren’t fully aware of the different stages of arousal you go through before you come. This means you need to train your body and your mind to recognize when you need to take action during sex to prevent yourself from coming too early. If you chose option 3, then your case of premature ejaculation isn’t too severe, but it is nevertheless something you probably want to get rid of. You’d like to double or even triple the amount of time you’re able to have sex for. To do this, you need to learn techniques that involve strengthening your PC muscle, heightening your arousal awareness and improving your sexual technique.
Whatever the cause of your personal problem with premature ejaculation is, it can almost always be improved or even fixed when you have the right knowledge and the correct attitude.
Edward White is an expert on teaching men how to last longer in bed, delay and control orgasms and totally overcome premature ejaculation and has written a book that guarantees you instant results in as little as a few hours from now.
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The best place to start when solving your own case of ‘coming too quickly’ is identifying the real reasons you struggle to last long enough during sex. Read the following options.
1. You have a hard time controlling when you climax when you’re masturbating and when you have sex with your partner.
2. You only struggle to control when you ejaculate when you have sex. You have no problem doing it when you masturbate. When you have sex, you can’t last more than about 2 minutes before coming.
3. You have no problem with premature ejaculation when you masturbate, only when you have sex. When you have sex, you can usually last longer than 2 minutes, but less than 8 minutes.
If option one sounds the closest to your situation, then your premature ejaculation is probably being caused by an underlying case of hypersensitivity and sensational unawareness. This means that your penis is extremely prone to become over-stimulated as soon as sex begins and that you have a hard time really noticing when you’re close to and about to pass the ‘point of no return’, which—once passed—means that you’re going to climax no matter what you do. If you chose option two, then you probably have less hypersensitivity and more sensation unawareness.
This means that your penis does become very stimulated when you have sex—which can make it hard to refrain from coming early—but that your main problem is that you aren’t fully aware of the different stages of arousal you go through before you come. This means you need to train your body and your mind to recognize when you need to take action during sex to prevent yourself from coming too early. If you chose option 3, then your case of premature ejaculation isn’t too severe, but it is nevertheless something you probably want to get rid of. You’d like to double or even triple the amount of time you’re able to have sex for. To do this, you need to learn techniques that involve strengthening your PC muscle, heightening your arousal awareness and improving your sexual technique.
Whatever the cause of your personal problem with premature ejaculation is, it can almost always be improved or even fixed when you have the right knowledge and the correct attitude.
Edward White is an expert on teaching men how to last longer in bed, delay and control orgasms and totally overcome premature ejaculation and has written a book that guarantees you instant results in as little as a few hours from now.
For all those interested in a Pickup, Dating And Seduction Guide please visit GuyGetsGirl.com
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Relationship Problem Advice - The Pitfalls and The Promises
Let's start with the fundamentals, shall we? A relationship is always going to set you challenges. If you are in one, intimate or otherwise, from time to time it will feel problematic. And if you're not in one, especially an intimate one, for most people, sooner or later that will constitute a relationship problem in itself.
There are basically only two kinds of problems in relationships: one is where seeking for the solution is going to lead to deepening your love, loyalty or commitment to one another, and the other is where it's going to drive you further apart.
So here's my relationship problem advice tip number 1: get clear, really clear, about how you want things to turn out before you wade in. In short, know your outcome. Ask yourself, will this action, these words, this decision deepen or weaken my relationship with this person?
However, there's a paradox here which you should realise. Advice is just someone else's opinion about how you should behave. Relationship problem advice is all too often based on the person's own experience, rarely on any form of expertise. The fact that your best mate is in, or has been in, a relationship, does not qualify him or her to tell you how to behave in yours!
Even the so called "relationship experts" will have their own canoe to paddle. Their background and cultural values, for example, will influence their judgement to some extent. Their gender and their own experience will also, no matter how much they may have been trained into neutrality.
(I'm a qualified psychotherapist. The two main differences between a professional giving relationship problem advice versus a well meaning friend or relative is that the professional is going to be less emotionally attached to what happens to you. That doesn't mean they don't care, it means they know how to pick up the pieces either way, and they aren't likely to love you like your brother might, for instance. The other difference is that the professional recognises when his or her own buttons are being pressed, and how to step back from becoming too involved).
So here's my relationship problem advice tip number 2: Make up your own mind. Of course, listen to the experts, the mates and your mother. But it's your life, your relationship and ultimately, your decision.
How do you make up your own mind? By listening to your heart. You cannot solve an emotional relationship problem with logic. Logic will tell you how much you can afford to spend on a new car, but it can't dictate which model you fall in love with.
In solving relationship problems, you must ask yourself: what feels right? What feels kind? And above all, what action can I take that fits with my values and what I believe in? If you believe in being kind, it's not going to be something you'll comfortably live with if you call your beloved a lot of terrible names and slam out of the house, is it?
Remember, ultimately, the person you've always got to live with is yourself, regardless of what happens in your other relationships.
So here's my ultimate relationship problem advice tip: Be kind and loving to yourself first. You're going to wake up with yourself every day of your life, so you'd better like the one and only person you're guaranteed to go to bed with!
There are basically only two kinds of problems in relationships: one is where seeking for the solution is going to lead to deepening your love, loyalty or commitment to one another, and the other is where it's going to drive you further apart.
So here's my relationship problem advice tip number 1: get clear, really clear, about how you want things to turn out before you wade in. In short, know your outcome. Ask yourself, will this action, these words, this decision deepen or weaken my relationship with this person?
However, there's a paradox here which you should realise. Advice is just someone else's opinion about how you should behave. Relationship problem advice is all too often based on the person's own experience, rarely on any form of expertise. The fact that your best mate is in, or has been in, a relationship, does not qualify him or her to tell you how to behave in yours!
Even the so called "relationship experts" will have their own canoe to paddle. Their background and cultural values, for example, will influence their judgement to some extent. Their gender and their own experience will also, no matter how much they may have been trained into neutrality.
(I'm a qualified psychotherapist. The two main differences between a professional giving relationship problem advice versus a well meaning friend or relative is that the professional is going to be less emotionally attached to what happens to you. That doesn't mean they don't care, it means they know how to pick up the pieces either way, and they aren't likely to love you like your brother might, for instance. The other difference is that the professional recognises when his or her own buttons are being pressed, and how to step back from becoming too involved).
So here's my relationship problem advice tip number 2: Make up your own mind. Of course, listen to the experts, the mates and your mother. But it's your life, your relationship and ultimately, your decision.
How do you make up your own mind? By listening to your heart. You cannot solve an emotional relationship problem with logic. Logic will tell you how much you can afford to spend on a new car, but it can't dictate which model you fall in love with.
In solving relationship problems, you must ask yourself: what feels right? What feels kind? And above all, what action can I take that fits with my values and what I believe in? If you believe in being kind, it's not going to be something you'll comfortably live with if you call your beloved a lot of terrible names and slam out of the house, is it?
Remember, ultimately, the person you've always got to live with is yourself, regardless of what happens in your other relationships.
So here's my ultimate relationship problem advice tip: Be kind and loving to yourself first. You're going to wake up with yourself every day of your life, so you'd better like the one and only person you're guaranteed to go to bed with!
Monday, July 6, 2009
Dating The Party Animal
When you met the person you are dating you were probably drawn to them because they were charismatic and just seemed like a lot of fun. You probably enjoyed the energy and attention that you got from the person and thought that you finally found the right person for you.
That was until, you went out and spent time with other people socially. You may have gotten a few odd looks when you explained that you really liked the person or that you have a lot of fun together. Little did you know, these were looks of empathy that you didn't yet understand.
After going out socially you probably started to see a different side of the person. You may have wanted to go home and they kept begging off, asking for just a little bit longer, and a little bit longer still. Suddenly you look around and you realize that your date is the life of the party. With a bit more attention to what is going on, you see that not only are they the life of the party, they are a true party animal! This can be quite a shock, especially if this is not your personality and what you expected from the person that you are dating.
It can be difficult to reconcile who you thought the person was with who they appear to be when they are in social situations. You may find that you feel angry, irritated, or even a little bit sad when you realize that this person isn't who you thought they were. You may need to remove yourself from the situation and do some serious soul searching. It's not that you can't date the party animal, you just need to decide if this is something that you are willing to do or something that you are willing to put up with.
For a lot of people, dating the party animal is a good thing. It allows for them to come out of their shell a bit more and start experiencing more exciting things in life that they may not have done otherwise. A lot of people find that this other side of the person that they are dating is a lot of fun, assuming that they are able to put away the party animal persona from time to time to have serious relationship moments.
You may find that dating the party animal is something that you are not willing to do. A lot of people are turned off by someone who loves to party a lot, and you are the only one who can determine if you are comfortable with the behavior or not. You may need to sit down and talk to the person you have been dating and see if this is really a part of who they are, or if they are able to be serious and responsible when called for. You may be able to strike a balance with the individual or you may just not want to party with them.
Dating the party animal can be a lot of fun but it can also be really hard if you are not the party type. You need to really look within yourself and decide if the relationship is one that you are willing to work for if you don't mesh 100%. If you just want to know that you will get that much energy and excitement when they are with you, chances are the party animal will not be a bad person to date!
That was until, you went out and spent time with other people socially. You may have gotten a few odd looks when you explained that you really liked the person or that you have a lot of fun together. Little did you know, these were looks of empathy that you didn't yet understand.
After going out socially you probably started to see a different side of the person. You may have wanted to go home and they kept begging off, asking for just a little bit longer, and a little bit longer still. Suddenly you look around and you realize that your date is the life of the party. With a bit more attention to what is going on, you see that not only are they the life of the party, they are a true party animal! This can be quite a shock, especially if this is not your personality and what you expected from the person that you are dating.
It can be difficult to reconcile who you thought the person was with who they appear to be when they are in social situations. You may find that you feel angry, irritated, or even a little bit sad when you realize that this person isn't who you thought they were. You may need to remove yourself from the situation and do some serious soul searching. It's not that you can't date the party animal, you just need to decide if this is something that you are willing to do or something that you are willing to put up with.
For a lot of people, dating the party animal is a good thing. It allows for them to come out of their shell a bit more and start experiencing more exciting things in life that they may not have done otherwise. A lot of people find that this other side of the person that they are dating is a lot of fun, assuming that they are able to put away the party animal persona from time to time to have serious relationship moments.
You may find that dating the party animal is something that you are not willing to do. A lot of people are turned off by someone who loves to party a lot, and you are the only one who can determine if you are comfortable with the behavior or not. You may need to sit down and talk to the person you have been dating and see if this is really a part of who they are, or if they are able to be serious and responsible when called for. You may be able to strike a balance with the individual or you may just not want to party with them.
Dating the party animal can be a lot of fun but it can also be really hard if you are not the party type. You need to really look within yourself and decide if the relationship is one that you are willing to work for if you don't mesh 100%. If you just want to know that you will get that much energy and excitement when they are with you, chances are the party animal will not be a bad person to date!
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Some Simple Steps To Be Successful in Online Dating
Dating is not what it used to be. Nowadays, people are turning to the Internet in order to find a date and potential soul mate. Free online dating
is a new approach to dating. There are many advantages and disadvantages to online dating. Safety is one of the biggest issues. In order for free online dating to be successful, you should follow some simple steps.
Free online dating has many advantages. The Internet allows some people to be more open and adventurous. For instance, women often won't go up to a stranger in a bar and strike up a conversation. However, online dating allows those who are shy to make the first move.
Online dating gives people the chance to weed out people they would never be interested in. With the online dating services that are available today, people who are not compatible are not paired up with each other. If you are a non-smoker, you can request that only profiles of non-smokers be sent to you. Likewise, if you only want someone who has children, you can request that those profiles be sent to you.
Free online dating allows you to meet people from all over the world. Under normal circumstances you would only meet people who are local to you. But with online dating, you can meet people from your own state, as well as other states.
If you plan on posting a picture of yourself, make sure it is a good picture. Do not include kids, pets, family or friends in the picture. You will want the picture to be as clear as possible. This will allow onlookers to get an accurate feel of your looks.
It is important that you are always honest. Whenever you approach online dating, it is often times very easy to lie. However, honesty is definitely the best approach. Although some may turn away from your honesty, others may be in fact drawn in closer with it.
If you find someone you think you might be interested in, chat online with them for a while. After you feel confident that you are talking to someone you would like to get to know better, exchange phone numbers. For safety reasons, only give out your cellphone number. You do not want to give them access to your home phone, until you can verify they are truly who they say they are.
Keep the conversation light and simple. Do not share your personal information too quickly. You can gradually share personal information over time. But be sure to start out slow.
After talking for a while, both online and over the phone, you may choose to meet. One of the keys to meeting someone from the Internet is make sure you meet them in a public place. Never get in a car with someone you have only been talking to online.
Online dating has changed the way people think about dating. What used to seem like a daunting task has actually turned into something people want to do. By following some simple safety guidelines, online dating can open up a whole new world of dating. So the next time you are sitting around, wondering if you will ever find your soul mate, consider a free online dating service.
is a new approach to dating. There are many advantages and disadvantages to online dating. Safety is one of the biggest issues. In order for free online dating to be successful, you should follow some simple steps.
Free online dating has many advantages. The Internet allows some people to be more open and adventurous. For instance, women often won't go up to a stranger in a bar and strike up a conversation. However, online dating allows those who are shy to make the first move.
Online dating gives people the chance to weed out people they would never be interested in. With the online dating services that are available today, people who are not compatible are not paired up with each other. If you are a non-smoker, you can request that only profiles of non-smokers be sent to you. Likewise, if you only want someone who has children, you can request that those profiles be sent to you.
Free online dating allows you to meet people from all over the world. Under normal circumstances you would only meet people who are local to you. But with online dating, you can meet people from your own state, as well as other states.
If you plan on posting a picture of yourself, make sure it is a good picture. Do not include kids, pets, family or friends in the picture. You will want the picture to be as clear as possible. This will allow onlookers to get an accurate feel of your looks.
It is important that you are always honest. Whenever you approach online dating, it is often times very easy to lie. However, honesty is definitely the best approach. Although some may turn away from your honesty, others may be in fact drawn in closer with it.
If you find someone you think you might be interested in, chat online with them for a while. After you feel confident that you are talking to someone you would like to get to know better, exchange phone numbers. For safety reasons, only give out your cellphone number. You do not want to give them access to your home phone, until you can verify they are truly who they say they are.
Keep the conversation light and simple. Do not share your personal information too quickly. You can gradually share personal information over time. But be sure to start out slow.
After talking for a while, both online and over the phone, you may choose to meet. One of the keys to meeting someone from the Internet is make sure you meet them in a public place. Never get in a car with someone you have only been talking to online.
Online dating has changed the way people think about dating. What used to seem like a daunting task has actually turned into something people want to do. By following some simple safety guidelines, online dating can open up a whole new world of dating. So the next time you are sitting around, wondering if you will ever find your soul mate, consider a free online dating service.
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Simple Dating Tips For Girls
Many times when a girl is looking for a dating tip, there tends to be many ways to find them, but they lead to general tips that don’t result in specific dating tips for a girl. Sure, general dating tips can help anyone who reads them but for specific tips that help a particular gender or preference, they can be few and far between. If you’re looking for dating tips for a girl, look no further and read on!
The first thing you should know when looking into dating tips for a girl, is to pick and choose carefully. Because everyone is different, not every tip will work well for everyone. So be sure that you use the tips that you’re comfortable with, don’t forget to be true to who you really are, and you’re sure to be successful!
Tip #1
Dating tips for girls will usually include wearing sexy clothing and basically “putting yourself out there”. You won’t find these tips in this article. The first tip to be shared with you is to be yourself! Many women think that they can’t be themselves when they first meet a man for one reason or another.
The bottom line is, if he doesn’t like you for you, the relationship isn’t going to get very far because eventually your true colors will shine through, it’s human nature! So, be yourself and stay confident. You’ll meet plenty of men who love your personality and the kind of person you are.
Tip #2
Another great dating tip for girls is to make sure you don’t air your dirty laundry on the first date. Let’s face it, we all have things going on in our lives that aren’t the most attractive to the opposite sex. Now, this isn’t to say that you should keep this stuff hidden as long as possible, but you surely shouldn’t tell him all about it the first time you spend time together. Give him a chance to get to know you, and vice versa.
A door will open after a few dates that will allow you the chance to start giving him information he should know that may affect him in the long run. By the time these conversations come about, you’ll already be in a relationship and it will be easier for him to understand the things you’re telling him without being scared off.
Tip #3
Finally, another important dating tip for girls is to not come off as desperate! This doesn’t mean that you’re falling all over the men that you meet or letting them know how much you need to find a date, this means to avoid doing things like waiting by the phone for his call and paying for the date just because he asks.
These small things that you may think are simply thoughtful because you like him, may lead him to believe you’re willing to do whatever it takes to make him happy and to snag him for yourself. This leads to one of two things; he’ll either get turned off and stop calling, or he’ll decide that it’s worth taking advantage of you, neither of which you want.
The first thing you should know when looking into dating tips for a girl, is to pick and choose carefully. Because everyone is different, not every tip will work well for everyone. So be sure that you use the tips that you’re comfortable with, don’t forget to be true to who you really are, and you’re sure to be successful!
Tip #1
Dating tips for girls will usually include wearing sexy clothing and basically “putting yourself out there”. You won’t find these tips in this article. The first tip to be shared with you is to be yourself! Many women think that they can’t be themselves when they first meet a man for one reason or another.
The bottom line is, if he doesn’t like you for you, the relationship isn’t going to get very far because eventually your true colors will shine through, it’s human nature! So, be yourself and stay confident. You’ll meet plenty of men who love your personality and the kind of person you are.
Tip #2
Another great dating tip for girls is to make sure you don’t air your dirty laundry on the first date. Let’s face it, we all have things going on in our lives that aren’t the most attractive to the opposite sex. Now, this isn’t to say that you should keep this stuff hidden as long as possible, but you surely shouldn’t tell him all about it the first time you spend time together. Give him a chance to get to know you, and vice versa.
A door will open after a few dates that will allow you the chance to start giving him information he should know that may affect him in the long run. By the time these conversations come about, you’ll already be in a relationship and it will be easier for him to understand the things you’re telling him without being scared off.
Tip #3
Finally, another important dating tip for girls is to not come off as desperate! This doesn’t mean that you’re falling all over the men that you meet or letting them know how much you need to find a date, this means to avoid doing things like waiting by the phone for his call and paying for the date just because he asks.
These small things that you may think are simply thoughtful because you like him, may lead him to believe you’re willing to do whatever it takes to make him happy and to snag him for yourself. This leads to one of two things; he’ll either get turned off and stop calling, or he’ll decide that it’s worth taking advantage of you, neither of which you want.
Online Dating Is A Great Way To Meet That Special Someone
Online dating is a new way to find friends or perhaps to find your special someone. Online dating is increasingly in huge demand and is relatively inexpensive. While there are many free chat rooms and online personal ad sites, you may want to invest in paying a small fee to find people who are more serious about meeting a quality partner. Online dating is becoming very popular as is a great way to contact and make new friends.
The Dating Challenge
Dating is a challenge at any age and for both women and men. Online dating is a reasonably safe way to overcome this common problem. Dating in the online scene isn't restricted just to teenagers and young adults. People of all ages are now becoming regular visitors to online dating sites. Dating can be stressful and nerve wracking for people of all ages and the stress of rejection often does not disappear with maturity.
Dating Online
Online dating has become a very safe and accepted way to meet people and is popular for this reason. Online dating has only really taken off in the last few years, and the fact is that it is radically different from the traditional dating methods we are all used to. Online dating has helped many, many people find love all over the world as the previous physical barrier of distance and location has been removed by the internet. Online dating allows singles to learn important pieces of personal information about a potential partner before ever meeting them in person. By reading online dating profiles you quickly sift through a large number of potential partners and weed out the undesirables quickly and efficiently.
Online Dating Profiles
Whether you’re creating your online profile, or scanning through those of others, online dating is a tricky business at best. Profiles are provided on each member and most of the time a picture is included. Profiles with pictures are more than twice as likely to receive attention than profiles without pictures. Photos are often an important component of online dating profiles as physical appearance is important to most members. Tip: if someone posted a short profile and clearly put no thought into it, you can expect that kind of communication in real life.
Online dating is a high tech and modern way to date, but it brings back some old school elements because the relationships do not always advance so quickly. Online dating is especially convenient if you are uneasy about approaching members of the opposite gender in traditional meeting places such as bars and clubs, or if you have had bad experiences with these types of dating. An Internet survey showed that most single fathers agree that online dating is a safer and easier method for meeting other singles. 75 percent of respondents said that online dating is the easiest way for single parents to meet other single parents. 67 percent said that online dating is a safer way to date than other more conventional methods as you can study the profile of the person before arranging to meet them in person.
The Dating Challenge
Dating is a challenge at any age and for both women and men. Online dating is a reasonably safe way to overcome this common problem. Dating in the online scene isn't restricted just to teenagers and young adults. People of all ages are now becoming regular visitors to online dating sites. Dating can be stressful and nerve wracking for people of all ages and the stress of rejection often does not disappear with maturity.
Dating Online
Online dating has become a very safe and accepted way to meet people and is popular for this reason. Online dating has only really taken off in the last few years, and the fact is that it is radically different from the traditional dating methods we are all used to. Online dating has helped many, many people find love all over the world as the previous physical barrier of distance and location has been removed by the internet. Online dating allows singles to learn important pieces of personal information about a potential partner before ever meeting them in person. By reading online dating profiles you quickly sift through a large number of potential partners and weed out the undesirables quickly and efficiently.
Online Dating Profiles
Whether you’re creating your online profile, or scanning through those of others, online dating is a tricky business at best. Profiles are provided on each member and most of the time a picture is included. Profiles with pictures are more than twice as likely to receive attention than profiles without pictures. Photos are often an important component of online dating profiles as physical appearance is important to most members. Tip: if someone posted a short profile and clearly put no thought into it, you can expect that kind of communication in real life.
Online dating is a high tech and modern way to date, but it brings back some old school elements because the relationships do not always advance so quickly. Online dating is especially convenient if you are uneasy about approaching members of the opposite gender in traditional meeting places such as bars and clubs, or if you have had bad experiences with these types of dating. An Internet survey showed that most single fathers agree that online dating is a safer and easier method for meeting other singles. 75 percent of respondents said that online dating is the easiest way for single parents to meet other single parents. 67 percent said that online dating is a safer way to date than other more conventional methods as you can study the profile of the person before arranging to meet them in person.
Sunday, June 28, 2009
1000 Questions For Couples
One of the biggest reason marriages end in divorce is because couples fail to
ask the big questions before they walk down the aisle.
If couples simply spent some time asking each other the questions that really
matter, they'd greatly increase their chances of staying together.
The great thing about a "question book" is that it makes it easier to ask
those difficult questions and encourages an environment to address them.
But is Michael Webb's "1000 Questions For Couples" the right book for this?
In short, yes. Most question books 'beat around the bush,' never really
providing the important questions, and others simply don't have enough
questions.
On the other hand, Webb has put together the most comprehensive collection of
questions, covering every single topic you'd ever want to know about before
tying the knot.
It includes tough subjects like money, children & child rearing, career, past
and present relationships, religion, morals, convictions & beliefs,
personality, and even sex.
But don't get me wrong while there are many serious and tough topics to
discuss, there are also many "lighter" yet just as important topics,
including the car and driving, vacations, food and well being, pets, and your
favorite things.
That's one thing I really loved about this book. It covered every conceivable
topic from the super serious to the light-hearted and fun, making it easy for
couples to start with easy questions and build their way up to important ones.
Also, a great bonus is having the ability to deliver 3 - 5 of the questions
to my email each day, making everything automatic. I just go about my day and
get new questions to ask my loved one, without having to really think about
it.
In all, there's nothing really negative I can say about this book. It
delivers exactly what it says and covers every question you would ever want
to ask your loved one.
I highly recommend this book for everyone. NOT just couples who are thinking
of getting married but also couples who just want to feel closer together, or
people dating, who just want more things to talk about.
For all the details check out:
http://tinyurl.com/p7vgtx
ask the big questions before they walk down the aisle.
If couples simply spent some time asking each other the questions that really
matter, they'd greatly increase their chances of staying together.
The great thing about a "question book" is that it makes it easier to ask
those difficult questions and encourages an environment to address them.
But is Michael Webb's "1000 Questions For Couples" the right book for this?
In short, yes. Most question books 'beat around the bush,' never really
providing the important questions, and others simply don't have enough
questions.
On the other hand, Webb has put together the most comprehensive collection of
questions, covering every single topic you'd ever want to know about before
tying the knot.
It includes tough subjects like money, children & child rearing, career, past
and present relationships, religion, morals, convictions & beliefs,
personality, and even sex.
But don't get me wrong while there are many serious and tough topics to
discuss, there are also many "lighter" yet just as important topics,
including the car and driving, vacations, food and well being, pets, and your
favorite things.
That's one thing I really loved about this book. It covered every conceivable
topic from the super serious to the light-hearted and fun, making it easy for
couples to start with easy questions and build their way up to important ones.
Also, a great bonus is having the ability to deliver 3 - 5 of the questions
to my email each day, making everything automatic. I just go about my day and
get new questions to ask my loved one, without having to really think about
it.
In all, there's nothing really negative I can say about this book. It
delivers exactly what it says and covers every question you would ever want
to ask your loved one.
I highly recommend this book for everyone. NOT just couples who are thinking
of getting married but also couples who just want to feel closer together, or
people dating, who just want more things to talk about.
For all the details check out:
http://tinyurl.com/p7vgtx
GuyGetsGirl Review: a pick-up guide written for men by a women
“At last, a pick-up guide written for men by somebody who truly knows what
women think and want… Another woman!”
Tiffany Taylor’s guide, called GuyGetsGirl, reveals for the first time all of
the dirty tricks women play on men and describes exactly how any guy can use
special techniques to attract and seduce the woman or women of his choice.
Questions that have confused us guys for years are finally answered, like:
- What women think when we approach and start talking to them and how we can
use this information to our advantage.
- The things girls REALLY care about most – not good looks or fast cars.
- How to create sexual chemistry with a woman without being an arrogant alpha
male or the nice guy that always finishes last.
The GuyGetsGirl guide is ever expanding and currently stands at three thick,
information packed volumes. Each one covers the attraction, seduction and
dating game in detail and describes everything us fellas should and shouldn’t
do to be successful in the field.
Although I’m sure Tiffany has taken some serious flak from her fellow women
for revealing everything she has, I’m confident the massive thanks from
millions of grateful men everywhere will provide a little comfort!
All 3 editions of the best-selling guide are available for instant download
at http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
You should check it out.
women think and want… Another woman!”
Tiffany Taylor’s guide, called GuyGetsGirl, reveals for the first time all of
the dirty tricks women play on men and describes exactly how any guy can use
special techniques to attract and seduce the woman or women of his choice.
Questions that have confused us guys for years are finally answered, like:
- What women think when we approach and start talking to them and how we can
use this information to our advantage.
- The things girls REALLY care about most – not good looks or fast cars.
- How to create sexual chemistry with a woman without being an arrogant alpha
male or the nice guy that always finishes last.
The GuyGetsGirl guide is ever expanding and currently stands at three thick,
information packed volumes. Each one covers the attraction, seduction and
dating game in detail and describes everything us fellas should and shouldn’t
do to be successful in the field.
Although I’m sure Tiffany has taken some serious flak from her fellow women
for revealing everything she has, I’m confident the massive thanks from
millions of grateful men everywhere will provide a little comfort!
All 3 editions of the best-selling guide are available for instant download
at http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
You should check it out.
GuyGetsGirl Review: A Unique and New Approach to Attracting and Seducing Women
By now you’ve probably seen hundreds of guys all over the net promoting
pickup and seduction guides, DVD’s and courses. And if you’re like me, you’ve
probably even tried a few (in fact, I’ve probably spent a few thousand
dollars on attraction and seduction education – including the seminars, books
and stuff). Some of these ‘gurus’ peddling their wares know what they are
talking about, but most don’t and are just in this industry for a quick buck.
In the best part of 10 years and after using dozens of guru’s material I didn’
t come across ANYTHING written by a woman for men - until now.
I’ve finally found a collection of eBooks written by a woman – the author’s
name is Tiffany Taylor. I bought access to Tiffany’s GuyGetsGirl site and
instantly downloaded her 3 chunky eBooks which take you by the hand from
beginner’s essentials like the importance of smiling, self-confidence up to
the advanced heavily psychological stuff. There’s something in here for
everybody whatever your level and lots of really powerful techniques I’d
never heard of before.
I remember thinking to myself, “women don’t really know what women want, they
just know what they THINK they want” but with this one I was wrong. She goes
deep into the female psyche and really does expose a few “short cuts” and
easy to press attraction buttons that are present in all women. And boy do
they work.
I’d say this is probably the most unique and fresh approach to attraction and
seduction I’ve seen in a very long time and it is well worth checking out if
you have the money. If not and you want to increase your success with
beautiful women, then SAVE UP and get this guide. You won’t regret it.
David
Click here to get your copy of guygetsgirl
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
pickup and seduction guides, DVD’s and courses. And if you’re like me, you’ve
probably even tried a few (in fact, I’ve probably spent a few thousand
dollars on attraction and seduction education – including the seminars, books
and stuff). Some of these ‘gurus’ peddling their wares know what they are
talking about, but most don’t and are just in this industry for a quick buck.
In the best part of 10 years and after using dozens of guru’s material I didn’
t come across ANYTHING written by a woman for men - until now.
I’ve finally found a collection of eBooks written by a woman – the author’s
name is Tiffany Taylor. I bought access to Tiffany’s GuyGetsGirl site and
instantly downloaded her 3 chunky eBooks which take you by the hand from
beginner’s essentials like the importance of smiling, self-confidence up to
the advanced heavily psychological stuff. There’s something in here for
everybody whatever your level and lots of really powerful techniques I’d
never heard of before.
I remember thinking to myself, “women don’t really know what women want, they
just know what they THINK they want” but with this one I was wrong. She goes
deep into the female psyche and really does expose a few “short cuts” and
easy to press attraction buttons that are present in all women. And boy do
they work.
I’d say this is probably the most unique and fresh approach to attraction and
seduction I’ve seen in a very long time and it is well worth checking out if
you have the money. If not and you want to increase your success with
beautiful women, then SAVE UP and get this guide. You won’t regret it.
David
Click here to get your copy of guygetsgirl
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
Body Language Basics For Seducing Women
Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out over 50% of
your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and
less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.
What does this mean to you?
It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, and HOW
you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least initially).
You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to really get
any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same
successful techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked
eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.
Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the
course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her
mind and know what she’s thinking. This article is about YOUR body language.
Ok… So, I’ll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of
this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning body language you
can check out my site: http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob).
Body language basics:
1. Smile
You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you are a
friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as possible.
Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her
know that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big and genuine
smile is the best way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice
Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big
smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many
people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’
t make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)
2. Eye contact
As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even
looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If
anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she’ll
wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your
attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!
When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can
be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of
the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Don’t
stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are
slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a
little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say
the eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that.
There are even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring
into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.
Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be
natural.
3. Upright posture
Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with
straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise
etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are confident,
healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just generally more attractive
and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s good for your back and will help
strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.
Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.
4. Gesticulate with open palms
You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was almost
certainly copied from this course).
I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one
to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to
picking up women – however, some people suggest that when combined with a few
other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of
getting out of speeding fines!
Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to make a point
(that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl
suggests you might be a player) you talk and using your hands you have open
palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms
facing the sky and smile as you talk.
It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest
and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making
her think you are being straight with her, is important.
This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work
effectively.
Those are the basics of body language, if you'd like to learn more visit
Tiffany Taylor's site by clicking here
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and
less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.
What does this mean to you?
It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, and HOW
you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least initially).
You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to really get
any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same
successful techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked
eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.
Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the
course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her
mind and know what she’s thinking. This article is about YOUR body language.
Ok… So, I’ll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of
this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning body language you
can check out my site: http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob).
Body language basics:
1. Smile
You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you are a
friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as possible.
Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her
know that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big and genuine
smile is the best way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice
Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big
smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many
people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’
t make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)
2. Eye contact
As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even
looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If
anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she’ll
wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your
attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!
When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can
be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of
the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Don’t
stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are
slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a
little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say
the eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that.
There are even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring
into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.
Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be
natural.
3. Upright posture
Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with
straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise
etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are confident,
healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just generally more attractive
and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s good for your back and will help
strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.
Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.
4. Gesticulate with open palms
You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was almost
certainly copied from this course).
I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one
to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to
picking up women – however, some people suggest that when combined with a few
other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of
getting out of speeding fines!
Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to make a point
(that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl
suggests you might be a player) you talk and using your hands you have open
palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms
facing the sky and smile as you talk.
It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest
and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making
her think you are being straight with her, is important.
This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work
effectively.
Those are the basics of body language, if you'd like to learn more visit
Tiffany Taylor's site by clicking here
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
How To Approach Groups Of Girls You Don't Know, And Get Them To Think You're Great!
For this example I’m going to use women at a bar. I will be going into lots
of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with
this.
(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that
are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a
massive leap in your success rates with women.)
As you know, women don’t usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.
Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know
what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves
they can rip you apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even
drinks poured over them.
But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can
usually yield great results.
Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at
me as though I’m from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably
don’t have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they
don’t know. Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple
tips here.
SIDE NOTE: If you have a major confidence problem then don’t worry, I have an
advanced 155-page E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into
increasing your confidence with women – and it works through the power of
self-reprogramming so it doesn’t matter how shy you are, this thing WILL work
for you. It’s a bonus product in my site member’s area that comes with my
book at no extra charge.
INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL
Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile
at her – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do
this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they
probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives
a little.
Step 2. Once you’ve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a
smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I’m not
suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of
women will smile back at you.
Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help
and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a
smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will
feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or
two, it’ll seem easy.
After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel
good (as long as you don’t quit on your first negative response – this will
happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you
HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful
with women).
One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he
actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3
years later – how’s that for effective!
There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most
not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…
Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to
approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar
pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT
in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other
single guys).
Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’
one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to
get to know more).
You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time.
Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3
second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.
If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the
approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your
approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson).
So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!
ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!
NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!
If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will
INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive -
for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side...
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of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with
this.
(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that
are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a
massive leap in your success rates with women.)
As you know, women don’t usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.
Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know
what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves
they can rip you apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even
drinks poured over them.
But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can
usually yield great results.
Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at
me as though I’m from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably
don’t have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they
don’t know. Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple
tips here.
SIDE NOTE: If you have a major confidence problem then don’t worry, I have an
advanced 155-page E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into
increasing your confidence with women – and it works through the power of
self-reprogramming so it doesn’t matter how shy you are, this thing WILL work
for you. It’s a bonus product in my site member’s area that comes with my
book at no extra charge.
INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL
Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile
at her – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do
this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they
probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives
a little.
Step 2. Once you’ve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a
smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I’m not
suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of
women will smile back at you.
Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help
and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a
smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will
feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or
two, it’ll seem easy.
After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel
good (as long as you don’t quit on your first negative response – this will
happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you
HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful
with women).
One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he
actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3
years later – how’s that for effective!
There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most
not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…
Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to
approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar
pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT
in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other
single guys).
Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’
one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to
get to know more).
You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time.
Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3
second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.
If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the
approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your
approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson).
So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!
ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!
NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!
If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will
INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive -
for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side...
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Making A Great First Impression On Women
ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you'd be
surprised by how many men don't understand the importance of this simple tip.
You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s
become a bit of a cliché because it’s true -- first impressions really do
count.
Here are some figures to consider from my studies.
If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER
getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be
unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).
If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically
to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3
minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions
of you were bad.
It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly
up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the
helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success
– no helicopters for you.
Honestly, I can't stress this enough -- always try to look your best.
Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.
Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.
Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.
Why are shoes my number 5 S?
Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and
hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.
What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but
as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.
Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's and imitate
the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are
wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on
clothing.
Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel
wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they
start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within
days.
Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how
you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an
instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women
feel too.
Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much.
One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists --
maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering.
I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called
JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try
to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!
And here's a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually
pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word!
And NO rejection either. You won't find this anywhere else either. What you
need to do is...
Click Here To Read More Tips
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surprised by how many men don't understand the importance of this simple tip.
You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s
become a bit of a cliché because it’s true -- first impressions really do
count.
Here are some figures to consider from my studies.
If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER
getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be
unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).
If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically
to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3
minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions
of you were bad.
It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly
up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the
helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success
– no helicopters for you.
Honestly, I can't stress this enough -- always try to look your best.
Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.
Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.
Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.
Why are shoes my number 5 S?
Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and
hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.
What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but
as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.
Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's and imitate
the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are
wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on
clothing.
Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel
wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they
start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within
days.
Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how
you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an
instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women
feel too.
Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much.
One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists --
maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering.
I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called
JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try
to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!
And here's a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually
pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word!
And NO rejection either. You won't find this anywhere else either. What you
need to do is...
Click Here To Read More Tips
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
Attracting and Seducing Women: How to Use ‘Option Limitation’ to Maximise
Attracting and Seducing Women: How to Use ‘Option Limitation’ to Maximise
Your Success
Getting girls to feel an attraction for you - that isn’t simply based on your
looks, the contents of your wallet or the car you’ve got parked outside - can
be really tricky.
After all, how are men supposed to know what each girl’s looking for without
asking?
If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all, no girl
wants a guy approaching her with needy questions - she wants a confident man
who somehow seems to know what she’s after and can give it to her.
So how do you do it?
How do you become the man that effortlessly exudes confidence, dominance and
presence, without turning into an arrogant poser or desperate wannabe?
The answer lies in psychology. It’s at the heart of all persuasive social
situations, and absolutely central to the success of any guy’s attempts at
attracting and seducing women. Quite simply, by learning the CORRECT
psychological rules, principles and tactics, any guy can play and WIN at the
game of seduction. For example, let’s look at one such psychological
technique, that used correctly boosts any guy’s chance of getting a girl’s
number or hooking up with her at a later date by at least 50%, each and
every time he uses it. It’s called option limitation and works on the
following principle of human nature:
When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural
reaction will be to rebel against it and go their own way. However, when
given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual
freedom has been respected and they make their choice from the variety of
options they’ve been presented with.
You can use this universal psychological principle when picking-up or
seducing a woman by carefully constructing how you pose important questions
or phrases while talking to her.
For example, most men think saying: “Can I have your number?” is an okay way
to finish a conversation that’s gone well with a girl. But a much more
powerful and effective way of saying the same thing would be to use option
limitation. Something like: “It’s been nice to meet you. Shall we swap
numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat and a drink tomorrow?” What you’re doing
is presenting the girl with a choice between good and better – whichever she
says yes to, you win. If you only give her one option, as in the first
example, she’s likely to create her own alternative, which means there’s a
chance she won’t say yes to the option you gave her. When she subconsciously
recognises that she’s been given a choice between multiple outcomes, she
feels her intellectual freedom has been respected and she chooses one of them.
So, always use option limitation to give the impression there’s a variety of
options available to the girl – even though each one is fine as far as you’re
concerned. And to strengthen the effect of option limitation, always try to
separate the choices you give the girl with the word “or.” When people hear “
or” they automatically recognise that they need to make a choice, and
therefore do just that.
Option limitation is just one example of how, whether they know it or not,
men who are successful with women CREATE that success for themselves – not
through luck or good fortune.
Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide for men
that reveals all the dirty tricks women play on guys each and every day. And,
most importantly, how men can turn the tables on women by using special
psychological techniques to attract and seduce them, anywhere, anytime…
effortlessly.
Click here to get your copy of guygetsgirl
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
Your Success
Getting girls to feel an attraction for you - that isn’t simply based on your
looks, the contents of your wallet or the car you’ve got parked outside - can
be really tricky.
After all, how are men supposed to know what each girl’s looking for without
asking?
If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all, no girl
wants a guy approaching her with needy questions - she wants a confident man
who somehow seems to know what she’s after and can give it to her.
So how do you do it?
How do you become the man that effortlessly exudes confidence, dominance and
presence, without turning into an arrogant poser or desperate wannabe?
The answer lies in psychology. It’s at the heart of all persuasive social
situations, and absolutely central to the success of any guy’s attempts at
attracting and seducing women. Quite simply, by learning the CORRECT
psychological rules, principles and tactics, any guy can play and WIN at the
game of seduction. For example, let’s look at one such psychological
technique, that used correctly boosts any guy’s chance of getting a girl’s
number or hooking up with her at a later date by at least 50%, each and
every time he uses it. It’s called option limitation and works on the
following principle of human nature:
When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural
reaction will be to rebel against it and go their own way. However, when
given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual
freedom has been respected and they make their choice from the variety of
options they’ve been presented with.
You can use this universal psychological principle when picking-up or
seducing a woman by carefully constructing how you pose important questions
or phrases while talking to her.
For example, most men think saying: “Can I have your number?” is an okay way
to finish a conversation that’s gone well with a girl. But a much more
powerful and effective way of saying the same thing would be to use option
limitation. Something like: “It’s been nice to meet you. Shall we swap
numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat and a drink tomorrow?” What you’re doing
is presenting the girl with a choice between good and better – whichever she
says yes to, you win. If you only give her one option, as in the first
example, she’s likely to create her own alternative, which means there’s a
chance she won’t say yes to the option you gave her. When she subconsciously
recognises that she’s been given a choice between multiple outcomes, she
feels her intellectual freedom has been respected and she chooses one of them.
So, always use option limitation to give the impression there’s a variety of
options available to the girl – even though each one is fine as far as you’re
concerned. And to strengthen the effect of option limitation, always try to
separate the choices you give the girl with the word “or.” When people hear “
or” they automatically recognise that they need to make a choice, and
therefore do just that.
Option limitation is just one example of how, whether they know it or not,
men who are successful with women CREATE that success for themselves – not
through luck or good fortune.
Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide for men
that reveals all the dirty tricks women play on guys each and every day. And,
most importantly, how men can turn the tables on women by using special
psychological techniques to attract and seduce them, anywhere, anytime…
effortlessly.
Click here to get your copy of guygetsgirl
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
How to Seduce a Woman Using ‘Deflection Theory
There’s something that often happens when you’re out playing the ‘seduction
game’ – that is, when you’re actively looking out for girls you think you’d
like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men
still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It
usually goes something like this: you’re in a group, talking to a couple of
girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a
party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to
make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving
the hardest to connect to – sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and
politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much,
if at all. It’s like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her
female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.
This doesn’t happen because you aren’t her type or just because sometimes
these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a different, special reason the girl
you’re interested in doesn’t appear to be interested in you and it’s got a
lot to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re
interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently
bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you’ve chosen and are
most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated importance. However,
she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously
attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social value she has over her
friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she
therefore maintains her unattainable, “I’m a bit too good for you” status.
However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION
THEORY. You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your
target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more
of her friends. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth
than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego.
So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of
friends, the girl you’re really interested in will subconsciously invest much
MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she
gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be
happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group and the one
you wanted in the first place. Here’s how to deflect your attention onto one
of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been
challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get
your attention and “win” you back.
1. Use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. However, when you’
re talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of
the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst themselves or to your
friend/friends if you’re with any) and give a slight smile before looking
back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the
subconscious mind of the girl you’re really interested in and immediately
makes her want to fight for your attention.
2. Casually make physical contact with her friends more than her. For example,
touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing
and joking.
3. When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly
more (as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction of one of her
friends more than her.
Using deflection theory to challenge a girl you’re interested in’s ego and
therefore make her want you more is just one psychological technique you can
use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others and you maximize your
success with the opposite sex in ways most men have and never will experience.
You can be the guy that gets the girl!
Want more information from Tiffany Taylor about how to attract and seduce
women with the GuyGetsGirl system?
Click here for more info http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
game’ – that is, when you’re actively looking out for girls you think you’d
like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men
still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It
usually goes something like this: you’re in a group, talking to a couple of
girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a
party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to
make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving
the hardest to connect to – sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and
politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much,
if at all. It’s like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her
female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.
This doesn’t happen because you aren’t her type or just because sometimes
these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a different, special reason the girl
you’re interested in doesn’t appear to be interested in you and it’s got a
lot to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re
interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently
bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you’ve chosen and are
most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated importance. However,
she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously
attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social value she has over her
friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she
therefore maintains her unattainable, “I’m a bit too good for you” status.
However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION
THEORY. You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your
target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more
of her friends. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth
than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego.
So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of
friends, the girl you’re really interested in will subconsciously invest much
MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she
gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be
happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group and the one
you wanted in the first place. Here’s how to deflect your attention onto one
of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been
challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get
your attention and “win” you back.
1. Use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. However, when you’
re talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of
the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst themselves or to your
friend/friends if you’re with any) and give a slight smile before looking
back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the
subconscious mind of the girl you’re really interested in and immediately
makes her want to fight for your attention.
2. Casually make physical contact with her friends more than her. For example,
touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing
and joking.
3. When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly
more (as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction of one of her
friends more than her.
Using deflection theory to challenge a girl you’re interested in’s ego and
therefore make her want you more is just one psychological technique you can
use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others and you maximize your
success with the opposite sex in ways most men have and never will experience.
You can be the guy that gets the girl!
Want more information from Tiffany Taylor about how to attract and seduce
women with the GuyGetsGirl system?
Click here for more info http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
How to Attract A Woman:
The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact By Tiffany Taylor
Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You
can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of
mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or
sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching
that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you
encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form
the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your
final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for
many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility
and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy
develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her
away?
Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel
uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at
physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl
off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually
sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the
girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are
attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so
what’s the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of
which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t
appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’
re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing
it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them
is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong
first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first
introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of
her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The
outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel
strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’
re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try
– you’ll notice the benefits immediately.
2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find
yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to
keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport
you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt
sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do
this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with
the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or
bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing
your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of
your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past
other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your
conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to
meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think
that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later
date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a
great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you
again.
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Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You
can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of
mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or
sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching
that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you
encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form
the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your
final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for
many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility
and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy
develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her
away?
Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel
uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at
physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl
off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually
sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the
girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are
attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so
what’s the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of
which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t
appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’
re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing
it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them
is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong
first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first
introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of
her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The
outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel
strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’
re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try
– you’ll notice the benefits immediately.
2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find
yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to
keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport
you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt
sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do
this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with
the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or
bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing
your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of
your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past
other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your
conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to
meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think
that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later
date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a
great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you
again.
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Do You Have to Be an Extrovert to Find Love Online?
If you're wondering "Is Internet dating only for extroverts?" wonder no more. In fact, introverts are the ones that may have the most success dating on the Internet. They can go at their own pace, be as cautious as they need to be, maintain their anonymity for as long as they want, and not have to meet anyone or even talk to anyone by phone until and if they are ready.
No, Internet dating is most definitely not only for extroverts. Many millions of people use and have used Internet dating, and many thousands of these at least have found the love of their life this way. These Internet daters are both extroverts and introverts.
Here are some more statistics about the folks who make a practice of Internet dating. What may surprise you is that three out of every single adult in the United States has used Internet dating at one time or another. This is often because they are introverts or because they are very busy people who don't have the time or inclination for the local bar scene.
Women who try Internet dating average about five emails every day they are members of a dating site, while the men only get one or two. What this means is that many of the women on these Internet dating sites are shy and careful, not extroverts at all. Of the males who use the Internet dating sites 40 percent of them admitted to lacking confidence about their first face to face meeting. See, not extroverted at all.
Other statistics about these dating sites include the fact that they're much less costly than they used to be. Probably because so many folks are using them that many others are cropping up and the competition has driven the price down.
Most women who use Internet dating sites, whether extroverts or introverts, prefer men that are older than themselves. Which is good, as it turns out, because most men who use Internet dating sites are looking for women who are younger than themselves.
Not that you know that Internet dating is not only for extroverts, here are some tips for giving it a try. The first thing you need to decide is what you want from Internet dating. Are you looking for a friend, occasional one night stands, a long term partner or marriage? Next find the right site or two or three. Find online reviews of the various sites and find the ones most suited for you. There are sites that are specific to age, religion, geographic region, body size, political views, sports choices and so forth.
Choose a site based on what you can afford as well.
Assume that it might take you six months to find the right person, especially if you're not an extrovert. Two Internet dating sites are better than just one. It won't cost you more if it takes you half the time by joining two. Even if you are not an extrovert, you can generally meet a few nice people, and perhaps the love of your life, through Internet dating.
No, Internet dating is most definitely not only for extroverts. Many millions of people use and have used Internet dating, and many thousands of these at least have found the love of their life this way. These Internet daters are both extroverts and introverts.
Here are some more statistics about the folks who make a practice of Internet dating. What may surprise you is that three out of every single adult in the United States has used Internet dating at one time or another. This is often because they are introverts or because they are very busy people who don't have the time or inclination for the local bar scene.
Women who try Internet dating average about five emails every day they are members of a dating site, while the men only get one or two. What this means is that many of the women on these Internet dating sites are shy and careful, not extroverts at all. Of the males who use the Internet dating sites 40 percent of them admitted to lacking confidence about their first face to face meeting. See, not extroverted at all.
Other statistics about these dating sites include the fact that they're much less costly than they used to be. Probably because so many folks are using them that many others are cropping up and the competition has driven the price down.
Most women who use Internet dating sites, whether extroverts or introverts, prefer men that are older than themselves. Which is good, as it turns out, because most men who use Internet dating sites are looking for women who are younger than themselves.
Not that you know that Internet dating is not only for extroverts, here are some tips for giving it a try. The first thing you need to decide is what you want from Internet dating. Are you looking for a friend, occasional one night stands, a long term partner or marriage? Next find the right site or two or three. Find online reviews of the various sites and find the ones most suited for you. There are sites that are specific to age, religion, geographic region, body size, political views, sports choices and so forth.
Choose a site based on what you can afford as well.
Assume that it might take you six months to find the right person, especially if you're not an extrovert. Two Internet dating sites are better than just one. It won't cost you more if it takes you half the time by joining two. Even if you are not an extrovert, you can generally meet a few nice people, and perhaps the love of your life, through Internet dating.
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