Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You
can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of
mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or
sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching
that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you
encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form
the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your
final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for
many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility
and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy
develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her
away?
Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel
uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at
physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl
off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually
sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the
girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are
attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so
what’s the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of
which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t
appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’
re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing
it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them
is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong
first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first
introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of
her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The
outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel
strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’
re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try
– you’ll notice the benefits immediately.
2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find
yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to
keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport
you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt
sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do
this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with
the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or
bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing
your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of
your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past
other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your
conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to
meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think
that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later
date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a
great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you
again.
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