Your Success
Getting girls to feel an attraction for you - that isn’t simply based on your
looks, the contents of your wallet or the car you’ve got parked outside - can
be really tricky.
After all, how are men supposed to know what each girl’s looking for without
asking?
If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all, no girl
wants a guy approaching her with needy questions - she wants a confident man
who somehow seems to know what she’s after and can give it to her.
So how do you do it?
How do you become the man that effortlessly exudes confidence, dominance and
presence, without turning into an arrogant poser or desperate wannabe?
The answer lies in psychology. It’s at the heart of all persuasive social
situations, and absolutely central to the success of any guy’s attempts at
attracting and seducing women. Quite simply, by learning the CORRECT
psychological rules, principles and tactics, any guy can play and WIN at the
game of seduction. For example, let’s look at one such psychological
technique, that used correctly boosts any guy’s chance of getting a girl’s
number or hooking up with her at a later date by at least 50%, each and
every time he uses it. It’s called option limitation and works on the
following principle of human nature:
When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural
reaction will be to rebel against it and go their own way. However, when
given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual
freedom has been respected and they make their choice from the variety of
options they’ve been presented with.
You can use this universal psychological principle when picking-up or
seducing a woman by carefully constructing how you pose important questions
or phrases while talking to her.
For example, most men think saying: “Can I have your number?” is an okay way
to finish a conversation that’s gone well with a girl. But a much more
powerful and effective way of saying the same thing would be to use option
limitation. Something like: “It’s been nice to meet you. Shall we swap
numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat and a drink tomorrow?” What you’re doing
is presenting the girl with a choice between good and better – whichever she
says yes to, you win. If you only give her one option, as in the first
example, she’s likely to create her own alternative, which means there’s a
chance she won’t say yes to the option you gave her. When she subconsciously
recognises that she’s been given a choice between multiple outcomes, she
feels her intellectual freedom has been respected and she chooses one of them.
So, always use option limitation to give the impression there’s a variety of
options available to the girl – even though each one is fine as far as you’re
concerned. And to strengthen the effect of option limitation, always try to
separate the choices you give the girl with the word “or.” When people hear “
or” they automatically recognise that they need to make a choice, and
therefore do just that.
Option limitation is just one example of how, whether they know it or not,
men who are successful with women CREATE that success for themselves – not
through luck or good fortune.
Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide for men
that reveals all the dirty tricks women play on guys each and every day. And,
most importantly, how men can turn the tables on women by using special
psychological techniques to attract and seduce them, anywhere, anytime…
effortlessly.
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