One of the biggest reason marriages end in divorce is because couples fail to
ask the big questions before they walk down the aisle.
If couples simply spent some time asking each other the questions that really
matter, they'd greatly increase their chances of staying together.
The great thing about a "question book" is that it makes it easier to ask
those difficult questions and encourages an environment to address them.
But is Michael Webb's "1000 Questions For Couples" the right book for this?
In short, yes. Most question books 'beat around the bush,' never really
providing the important questions, and others simply don't have enough
questions.
On the other hand, Webb has put together the most comprehensive collection of
questions, covering every single topic you'd ever want to know about before
tying the knot.
It includes tough subjects like money, children & child rearing, career, past
and present relationships, religion, morals, convictions & beliefs,
personality, and even sex.
But don't get me wrong while there are many serious and tough topics to
discuss, there are also many "lighter" yet just as important topics,
including the car and driving, vacations, food and well being, pets, and your
favorite things.
That's one thing I really loved about this book. It covered every conceivable
topic from the super serious to the light-hearted and fun, making it easy for
couples to start with easy questions and build their way up to important ones.
Also, a great bonus is having the ability to deliver 3 - 5 of the questions
to my email each day, making everything automatic. I just go about my day and
get new questions to ask my loved one, without having to really think about
it.
In all, there's nothing really negative I can say about this book. It
delivers exactly what it says and covers every question you would ever want
to ask your loved one.
I highly recommend this book for everyone. NOT just couples who are thinking
of getting married but also couples who just want to feel closer together, or
people dating, who just want more things to talk about.
For all the details check out:
http://tinyurl.com/p7vgtx
Sunday, June 28, 2009
GuyGetsGirl Review: a pick-up guide written for men by a women
“At last, a pick-up guide written for men by somebody who truly knows what
women think and want… Another woman!”
Tiffany Taylor’s guide, called GuyGetsGirl, reveals for the first time all of
the dirty tricks women play on men and describes exactly how any guy can use
special techniques to attract and seduce the woman or women of his choice.
Questions that have confused us guys for years are finally answered, like:
- What women think when we approach and start talking to them and how we can
use this information to our advantage.
- The things girls REALLY care about most – not good looks or fast cars.
- How to create sexual chemistry with a woman without being an arrogant alpha
male or the nice guy that always finishes last.
The GuyGetsGirl guide is ever expanding and currently stands at three thick,
information packed volumes. Each one covers the attraction, seduction and
dating game in detail and describes everything us fellas should and shouldn’t
do to be successful in the field.
Although I’m sure Tiffany has taken some serious flak from her fellow women
for revealing everything she has, I’m confident the massive thanks from
millions of grateful men everywhere will provide a little comfort!
All 3 editions of the best-selling guide are available for instant download
at http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
You should check it out.
women think and want… Another woman!”
Tiffany Taylor’s guide, called GuyGetsGirl, reveals for the first time all of
the dirty tricks women play on men and describes exactly how any guy can use
special techniques to attract and seduce the woman or women of his choice.
Questions that have confused us guys for years are finally answered, like:
- What women think when we approach and start talking to them and how we can
use this information to our advantage.
- The things girls REALLY care about most – not good looks or fast cars.
- How to create sexual chemistry with a woman without being an arrogant alpha
male or the nice guy that always finishes last.
The GuyGetsGirl guide is ever expanding and currently stands at three thick,
information packed volumes. Each one covers the attraction, seduction and
dating game in detail and describes everything us fellas should and shouldn’t
do to be successful in the field.
Although I’m sure Tiffany has taken some serious flak from her fellow women
for revealing everything she has, I’m confident the massive thanks from
millions of grateful men everywhere will provide a little comfort!
All 3 editions of the best-selling guide are available for instant download
at http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
You should check it out.
GuyGetsGirl Review: A Unique and New Approach to Attracting and Seducing Women
By now you’ve probably seen hundreds of guys all over the net promoting
pickup and seduction guides, DVD’s and courses. And if you’re like me, you’ve
probably even tried a few (in fact, I’ve probably spent a few thousand
dollars on attraction and seduction education – including the seminars, books
and stuff). Some of these ‘gurus’ peddling their wares know what they are
talking about, but most don’t and are just in this industry for a quick buck.
In the best part of 10 years and after using dozens of guru’s material I didn’
t come across ANYTHING written by a woman for men - until now.
I’ve finally found a collection of eBooks written by a woman – the author’s
name is Tiffany Taylor. I bought access to Tiffany’s GuyGetsGirl site and
instantly downloaded her 3 chunky eBooks which take you by the hand from
beginner’s essentials like the importance of smiling, self-confidence up to
the advanced heavily psychological stuff. There’s something in here for
everybody whatever your level and lots of really powerful techniques I’d
never heard of before.
I remember thinking to myself, “women don’t really know what women want, they
just know what they THINK they want” but with this one I was wrong. She goes
deep into the female psyche and really does expose a few “short cuts” and
easy to press attraction buttons that are present in all women. And boy do
they work.
I’d say this is probably the most unique and fresh approach to attraction and
seduction I’ve seen in a very long time and it is well worth checking out if
you have the money. If not and you want to increase your success with
beautiful women, then SAVE UP and get this guide. You won’t regret it.
David
Click here to get your copy of guygetsgirl
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
pickup and seduction guides, DVD’s and courses. And if you’re like me, you’ve
probably even tried a few (in fact, I’ve probably spent a few thousand
dollars on attraction and seduction education – including the seminars, books
and stuff). Some of these ‘gurus’ peddling their wares know what they are
talking about, but most don’t and are just in this industry for a quick buck.
In the best part of 10 years and after using dozens of guru’s material I didn’
t come across ANYTHING written by a woman for men - until now.
I’ve finally found a collection of eBooks written by a woman – the author’s
name is Tiffany Taylor. I bought access to Tiffany’s GuyGetsGirl site and
instantly downloaded her 3 chunky eBooks which take you by the hand from
beginner’s essentials like the importance of smiling, self-confidence up to
the advanced heavily psychological stuff. There’s something in here for
everybody whatever your level and lots of really powerful techniques I’d
never heard of before.
I remember thinking to myself, “women don’t really know what women want, they
just know what they THINK they want” but with this one I was wrong. She goes
deep into the female psyche and really does expose a few “short cuts” and
easy to press attraction buttons that are present in all women. And boy do
they work.
I’d say this is probably the most unique and fresh approach to attraction and
seduction I’ve seen in a very long time and it is well worth checking out if
you have the money. If not and you want to increase your success with
beautiful women, then SAVE UP and get this guide. You won’t regret it.
David
Click here to get your copy of guygetsgirl
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
Body Language Basics For Seducing Women
Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out over 50% of
your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and
less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.
What does this mean to you?
It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, and HOW
you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least initially).
You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to really get
any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same
successful techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked
eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.
Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the
course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her
mind and know what she’s thinking. This article is about YOUR body language.
Ok… So, I’ll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of
this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning body language you
can check out my site: http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob).
Body language basics:
1. Smile
You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you are a
friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as possible.
Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her
know that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big and genuine
smile is the best way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice
Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big
smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many
people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’
t make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)
2. Eye contact
As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even
looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If
anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she’ll
wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your
attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!
When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can
be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of
the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Don’t
stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are
slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a
little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say
the eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that.
There are even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring
into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.
Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be
natural.
3. Upright posture
Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with
straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise
etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are confident,
healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just generally more attractive
and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s good for your back and will help
strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.
Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.
4. Gesticulate with open palms
You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was almost
certainly copied from this course).
I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one
to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to
picking up women – however, some people suggest that when combined with a few
other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of
getting out of speeding fines!
Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to make a point
(that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl
suggests you might be a player) you talk and using your hands you have open
palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms
facing the sky and smile as you talk.
It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest
and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making
her think you are being straight with her, is important.
This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work
effectively.
Those are the basics of body language, if you'd like to learn more visit
Tiffany Taylor's site by clicking here
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and
less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.
What does this mean to you?
It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, and HOW
you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least initially).
You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to really get
any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same
successful techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked
eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.
Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the
course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her
mind and know what she’s thinking. This article is about YOUR body language.
Ok… So, I’ll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of
this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning body language you
can check out my site: http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob).
Body language basics:
1. Smile
You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you are a
friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as possible.
Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her
know that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big and genuine
smile is the best way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice
Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big
smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many
people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’
t make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)
2. Eye contact
As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even
looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If
anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she’ll
wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your
attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!
When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can
be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of
the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Don’t
stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are
slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a
little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say
the eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that.
There are even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring
into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.
Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be
natural.
3. Upright posture
Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with
straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise
etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are confident,
healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just generally more attractive
and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s good for your back and will help
strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.
Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.
4. Gesticulate with open palms
You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was almost
certainly copied from this course).
I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one
to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to
picking up women – however, some people suggest that when combined with a few
other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of
getting out of speeding fines!
Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to make a point
(that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl
suggests you might be a player) you talk and using your hands you have open
palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms
facing the sky and smile as you talk.
It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest
and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making
her think you are being straight with her, is important.
This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work
effectively.
Those are the basics of body language, if you'd like to learn more visit
Tiffany Taylor's site by clicking here
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
How To Approach Groups Of Girls You Don't Know, And Get Them To Think You're Great!
For this example I’m going to use women at a bar. I will be going into lots
of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with
this.
(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that
are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a
massive leap in your success rates with women.)
As you know, women don’t usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.
Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know
what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves
they can rip you apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even
drinks poured over them.
But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can
usually yield great results.
Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at
me as though I’m from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably
don’t have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they
don’t know. Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple
tips here.
SIDE NOTE: If you have a major confidence problem then don’t worry, I have an
advanced 155-page E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into
increasing your confidence with women – and it works through the power of
self-reprogramming so it doesn’t matter how shy you are, this thing WILL work
for you. It’s a bonus product in my site member’s area that comes with my
book at no extra charge.
INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL
Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile
at her – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do
this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they
probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives
a little.
Step 2. Once you’ve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a
smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I’m not
suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of
women will smile back at you.
Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help
and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a
smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will
feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or
two, it’ll seem easy.
After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel
good (as long as you don’t quit on your first negative response – this will
happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you
HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful
with women).
One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he
actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3
years later – how’s that for effective!
There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most
not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…
Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to
approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar
pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT
in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other
single guys).
Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’
one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to
get to know more).
You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time.
Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3
second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.
If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the
approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your
approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson).
So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!
ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!
NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!
If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will
INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive -
for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side...
Like to learn more about how to meet, attract and seduce beautiful women?
Click Here! http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with
this.
(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that
are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a
massive leap in your success rates with women.)
As you know, women don’t usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.
Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know
what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves
they can rip you apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even
drinks poured over them.
But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can
usually yield great results.
Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at
me as though I’m from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably
don’t have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they
don’t know. Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple
tips here.
SIDE NOTE: If you have a major confidence problem then don’t worry, I have an
advanced 155-page E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into
increasing your confidence with women – and it works through the power of
self-reprogramming so it doesn’t matter how shy you are, this thing WILL work
for you. It’s a bonus product in my site member’s area that comes with my
book at no extra charge.
INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL
Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile
at her – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do
this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they
probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives
a little.
Step 2. Once you’ve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a
smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I’m not
suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of
women will smile back at you.
Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help
and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a
smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will
feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or
two, it’ll seem easy.
After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel
good (as long as you don’t quit on your first negative response – this will
happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you
HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful
with women).
One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he
actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3
years later – how’s that for effective!
There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most
not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…
Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to
approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar
pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT
in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other
single guys).
Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’
one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to
get to know more).
You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time.
Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3
second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.
If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the
approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your
approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson).
So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!
ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!
NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!
If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will
INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive -
for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side...
Like to learn more about how to meet, attract and seduce beautiful women?
Click Here! http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
Making A Great First Impression On Women
ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you'd be
surprised by how many men don't understand the importance of this simple tip.
You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s
become a bit of a cliché because it’s true -- first impressions really do
count.
Here are some figures to consider from my studies.
If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER
getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be
unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).
If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically
to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3
minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions
of you were bad.
It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly
up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the
helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success
– no helicopters for you.
Honestly, I can't stress this enough -- always try to look your best.
Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.
Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.
Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.
Why are shoes my number 5 S?
Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and
hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.
What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but
as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.
Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's and imitate
the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are
wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on
clothing.
Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel
wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they
start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within
days.
Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how
you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an
instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women
feel too.
Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much.
One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists --
maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering.
I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called
JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try
to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!
And here's a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually
pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word!
And NO rejection either. You won't find this anywhere else either. What you
need to do is...
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surprised by how many men don't understand the importance of this simple tip.
You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s
become a bit of a cliché because it’s true -- first impressions really do
count.
Here are some figures to consider from my studies.
If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER
getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be
unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).
If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically
to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3
minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions
of you were bad.
It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly
up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the
helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success
– no helicopters for you.
Honestly, I can't stress this enough -- always try to look your best.
Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.
Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.
Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.
Why are shoes my number 5 S?
Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and
hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.
What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but
as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.
Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's and imitate
the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are
wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on
clothing.
Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel
wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they
start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within
days.
Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how
you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an
instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women
feel too.
Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much.
One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists --
maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering.
I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called
JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try
to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!
And here's a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually
pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word!
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Attracting and Seducing Women: How to Use ‘Option Limitation’ to Maximise
Attracting and Seducing Women: How to Use ‘Option Limitation’ to Maximise
Your Success
Getting girls to feel an attraction for you - that isn’t simply based on your
looks, the contents of your wallet or the car you’ve got parked outside - can
be really tricky.
After all, how are men supposed to know what each girl’s looking for without
asking?
If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all, no girl
wants a guy approaching her with needy questions - she wants a confident man
who somehow seems to know what she’s after and can give it to her.
So how do you do it?
How do you become the man that effortlessly exudes confidence, dominance and
presence, without turning into an arrogant poser or desperate wannabe?
The answer lies in psychology. It’s at the heart of all persuasive social
situations, and absolutely central to the success of any guy’s attempts at
attracting and seducing women. Quite simply, by learning the CORRECT
psychological rules, principles and tactics, any guy can play and WIN at the
game of seduction. For example, let’s look at one such psychological
technique, that used correctly boosts any guy’s chance of getting a girl’s
number or hooking up with her at a later date by at least 50%, each and
every time he uses it. It’s called option limitation and works on the
following principle of human nature:
When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural
reaction will be to rebel against it and go their own way. However, when
given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual
freedom has been respected and they make their choice from the variety of
options they’ve been presented with.
You can use this universal psychological principle when picking-up or
seducing a woman by carefully constructing how you pose important questions
or phrases while talking to her.
For example, most men think saying: “Can I have your number?” is an okay way
to finish a conversation that’s gone well with a girl. But a much more
powerful and effective way of saying the same thing would be to use option
limitation. Something like: “It’s been nice to meet you. Shall we swap
numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat and a drink tomorrow?” What you’re doing
is presenting the girl with a choice between good and better – whichever she
says yes to, you win. If you only give her one option, as in the first
example, she’s likely to create her own alternative, which means there’s a
chance she won’t say yes to the option you gave her. When she subconsciously
recognises that she’s been given a choice between multiple outcomes, she
feels her intellectual freedom has been respected and she chooses one of them.
So, always use option limitation to give the impression there’s a variety of
options available to the girl – even though each one is fine as far as you’re
concerned. And to strengthen the effect of option limitation, always try to
separate the choices you give the girl with the word “or.” When people hear “
or” they automatically recognise that they need to make a choice, and
therefore do just that.
Option limitation is just one example of how, whether they know it or not,
men who are successful with women CREATE that success for themselves – not
through luck or good fortune.
Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide for men
that reveals all the dirty tricks women play on guys each and every day. And,
most importantly, how men can turn the tables on women by using special
psychological techniques to attract and seduce them, anywhere, anytime…
effortlessly.
Click here to get your copy of guygetsgirl
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
Your Success
Getting girls to feel an attraction for you - that isn’t simply based on your
looks, the contents of your wallet or the car you’ve got parked outside - can
be really tricky.
After all, how are men supposed to know what each girl’s looking for without
asking?
If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all, no girl
wants a guy approaching her with needy questions - she wants a confident man
who somehow seems to know what she’s after and can give it to her.
So how do you do it?
How do you become the man that effortlessly exudes confidence, dominance and
presence, without turning into an arrogant poser or desperate wannabe?
The answer lies in psychology. It’s at the heart of all persuasive social
situations, and absolutely central to the success of any guy’s attempts at
attracting and seducing women. Quite simply, by learning the CORRECT
psychological rules, principles and tactics, any guy can play and WIN at the
game of seduction. For example, let’s look at one such psychological
technique, that used correctly boosts any guy’s chance of getting a girl’s
number or hooking up with her at a later date by at least 50%, each and
every time he uses it. It’s called option limitation and works on the
following principle of human nature:
When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural
reaction will be to rebel against it and go their own way. However, when
given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual
freedom has been respected and they make their choice from the variety of
options they’ve been presented with.
You can use this universal psychological principle when picking-up or
seducing a woman by carefully constructing how you pose important questions
or phrases while talking to her.
For example, most men think saying: “Can I have your number?” is an okay way
to finish a conversation that’s gone well with a girl. But a much more
powerful and effective way of saying the same thing would be to use option
limitation. Something like: “It’s been nice to meet you. Shall we swap
numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat and a drink tomorrow?” What you’re doing
is presenting the girl with a choice between good and better – whichever she
says yes to, you win. If you only give her one option, as in the first
example, she’s likely to create her own alternative, which means there’s a
chance she won’t say yes to the option you gave her. When she subconsciously
recognises that she’s been given a choice between multiple outcomes, she
feels her intellectual freedom has been respected and she chooses one of them.
So, always use option limitation to give the impression there’s a variety of
options available to the girl – even though each one is fine as far as you’re
concerned. And to strengthen the effect of option limitation, always try to
separate the choices you give the girl with the word “or.” When people hear “
or” they automatically recognise that they need to make a choice, and
therefore do just that.
Option limitation is just one example of how, whether they know it or not,
men who are successful with women CREATE that success for themselves – not
through luck or good fortune.
Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide for men
that reveals all the dirty tricks women play on guys each and every day. And,
most importantly, how men can turn the tables on women by using special
psychological techniques to attract and seduce them, anywhere, anytime…
effortlessly.
Click here to get your copy of guygetsgirl
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
How to Seduce a Woman Using ‘Deflection Theory
There’s something that often happens when you’re out playing the ‘seduction
game’ – that is, when you’re actively looking out for girls you think you’d
like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men
still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It
usually goes something like this: you’re in a group, talking to a couple of
girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a
party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to
make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving
the hardest to connect to – sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and
politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much,
if at all. It’s like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her
female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.
This doesn’t happen because you aren’t her type or just because sometimes
these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a different, special reason the girl
you’re interested in doesn’t appear to be interested in you and it’s got a
lot to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re
interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently
bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you’ve chosen and are
most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated importance. However,
she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously
attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social value she has over her
friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she
therefore maintains her unattainable, “I’m a bit too good for you” status.
However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION
THEORY. You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your
target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more
of her friends. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth
than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego.
So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of
friends, the girl you’re really interested in will subconsciously invest much
MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she
gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be
happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group and the one
you wanted in the first place. Here’s how to deflect your attention onto one
of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been
challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get
your attention and “win” you back.
1. Use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. However, when you’
re talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of
the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst themselves or to your
friend/friends if you’re with any) and give a slight smile before looking
back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the
subconscious mind of the girl you’re really interested in and immediately
makes her want to fight for your attention.
2. Casually make physical contact with her friends more than her. For example,
touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing
and joking.
3. When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly
more (as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction of one of her
friends more than her.
Using deflection theory to challenge a girl you’re interested in’s ego and
therefore make her want you more is just one psychological technique you can
use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others and you maximize your
success with the opposite sex in ways most men have and never will experience.
You can be the guy that gets the girl!
Want more information from Tiffany Taylor about how to attract and seduce
women with the GuyGetsGirl system?
Click here for more info http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
game’ – that is, when you’re actively looking out for girls you think you’d
like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men
still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It
usually goes something like this: you’re in a group, talking to a couple of
girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a
party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to
make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving
the hardest to connect to – sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and
politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much,
if at all. It’s like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her
female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.
This doesn’t happen because you aren’t her type or just because sometimes
these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a different, special reason the girl
you’re interested in doesn’t appear to be interested in you and it’s got a
lot to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re
interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently
bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you’ve chosen and are
most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated importance. However,
she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously
attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social value she has over her
friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she
therefore maintains her unattainable, “I’m a bit too good for you” status.
However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION
THEORY. You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your
target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more
of her friends. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth
than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego.
So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of
friends, the girl you’re really interested in will subconsciously invest much
MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she
gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be
happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group and the one
you wanted in the first place. Here’s how to deflect your attention onto one
of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been
challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get
your attention and “win” you back.
1. Use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. However, when you’
re talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of
the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst themselves or to your
friend/friends if you’re with any) and give a slight smile before looking
back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the
subconscious mind of the girl you’re really interested in and immediately
makes her want to fight for your attention.
2. Casually make physical contact with her friends more than her. For example,
touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing
and joking.
3. When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly
more (as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction of one of her
friends more than her.
Using deflection theory to challenge a girl you’re interested in’s ego and
therefore make her want you more is just one psychological technique you can
use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others and you maximize your
success with the opposite sex in ways most men have and never will experience.
You can be the guy that gets the girl!
Want more information from Tiffany Taylor about how to attract and seduce
women with the GuyGetsGirl system?
Click here for more info http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
How to Attract A Woman:
The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact By Tiffany Taylor
Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You
can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of
mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or
sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching
that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you
encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form
the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your
final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for
many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility
and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy
develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her
away?
Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel
uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at
physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl
off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually
sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the
girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are
attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so
what’s the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of
which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t
appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’
re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing
it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them
is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong
first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first
introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of
her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The
outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel
strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’
re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try
– you’ll notice the benefits immediately.
2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find
yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to
keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport
you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt
sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do
this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with
the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or
bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing
your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of
your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past
other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your
conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to
meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think
that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later
date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a
great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you
again.
Click here to start to lean how to attract and seduce woman today
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You
can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of
mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or
sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching
that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you
encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form
the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your
final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for
many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility
and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy
develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her
away?
Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel
uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at
physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl
off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually
sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the
girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are
attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so
what’s the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of
which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t
appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’
re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing
it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them
is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong
first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first
introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of
her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The
outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel
strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’
re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try
– you’ll notice the benefits immediately.
2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find
yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to
keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport
you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt
sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do
this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with
the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or
bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing
your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of
your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past
other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your
conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to
meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think
that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later
date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a
great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you
again.
Click here to start to lean how to attract and seduce woman today
http://tinyurl.com/kq6tob
Do You Have to Be an Extrovert to Find Love Online?
If you're wondering "Is Internet dating only for extroverts?" wonder no more. In fact, introverts are the ones that may have the most success dating on the Internet. They can go at their own pace, be as cautious as they need to be, maintain their anonymity for as long as they want, and not have to meet anyone or even talk to anyone by phone until and if they are ready.
No, Internet dating is most definitely not only for extroverts. Many millions of people use and have used Internet dating, and many thousands of these at least have found the love of their life this way. These Internet daters are both extroverts and introverts.
Here are some more statistics about the folks who make a practice of Internet dating. What may surprise you is that three out of every single adult in the United States has used Internet dating at one time or another. This is often because they are introverts or because they are very busy people who don't have the time or inclination for the local bar scene.
Women who try Internet dating average about five emails every day they are members of a dating site, while the men only get one or two. What this means is that many of the women on these Internet dating sites are shy and careful, not extroverts at all. Of the males who use the Internet dating sites 40 percent of them admitted to lacking confidence about their first face to face meeting. See, not extroverted at all.
Other statistics about these dating sites include the fact that they're much less costly than they used to be. Probably because so many folks are using them that many others are cropping up and the competition has driven the price down.
Most women who use Internet dating sites, whether extroverts or introverts, prefer men that are older than themselves. Which is good, as it turns out, because most men who use Internet dating sites are looking for women who are younger than themselves.
Not that you know that Internet dating is not only for extroverts, here are some tips for giving it a try. The first thing you need to decide is what you want from Internet dating. Are you looking for a friend, occasional one night stands, a long term partner or marriage? Next find the right site or two or three. Find online reviews of the various sites and find the ones most suited for you. There are sites that are specific to age, religion, geographic region, body size, political views, sports choices and so forth.
Choose a site based on what you can afford as well.
Assume that it might take you six months to find the right person, especially if you're not an extrovert. Two Internet dating sites are better than just one. It won't cost you more if it takes you half the time by joining two. Even if you are not an extrovert, you can generally meet a few nice people, and perhaps the love of your life, through Internet dating.
No, Internet dating is most definitely not only for extroverts. Many millions of people use and have used Internet dating, and many thousands of these at least have found the love of their life this way. These Internet daters are both extroverts and introverts.
Here are some more statistics about the folks who make a practice of Internet dating. What may surprise you is that three out of every single adult in the United States has used Internet dating at one time or another. This is often because they are introverts or because they are very busy people who don't have the time or inclination for the local bar scene.
Women who try Internet dating average about five emails every day they are members of a dating site, while the men only get one or two. What this means is that many of the women on these Internet dating sites are shy and careful, not extroverts at all. Of the males who use the Internet dating sites 40 percent of them admitted to lacking confidence about their first face to face meeting. See, not extroverted at all.
Other statistics about these dating sites include the fact that they're much less costly than they used to be. Probably because so many folks are using them that many others are cropping up and the competition has driven the price down.
Most women who use Internet dating sites, whether extroverts or introverts, prefer men that are older than themselves. Which is good, as it turns out, because most men who use Internet dating sites are looking for women who are younger than themselves.
Not that you know that Internet dating is not only for extroverts, here are some tips for giving it a try. The first thing you need to decide is what you want from Internet dating. Are you looking for a friend, occasional one night stands, a long term partner or marriage? Next find the right site or two or three. Find online reviews of the various sites and find the ones most suited for you. There are sites that are specific to age, religion, geographic region, body size, political views, sports choices and so forth.
Choose a site based on what you can afford as well.
Assume that it might take you six months to find the right person, especially if you're not an extrovert. Two Internet dating sites are better than just one. It won't cost you more if it takes you half the time by joining two. Even if you are not an extrovert, you can generally meet a few nice people, and perhaps the love of your life, through Internet dating.
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